Black Monday was a call made by some South Africans in response to the number of farm murders happening in our country. It was a call to all South Africans to highlight the plight of farmers providing sources of food in a country where food security is one of our major challenges. That some chose to pitch up in old South African flag regalia was their choice and should not be viewed as a reflection of the entire march and its intention.
By the same token, when a group of active citizens organise a march to protect our people, our Constitution and our country in a non-political, non-religious and inclusive gathering of people who want the same, and a few T-shirts from various political parties pop up – be they DA, ANC, EFF or the like – it does not make it a political march.
However, everything in our country is still politicised. We are working our way through a swamp of history and all its after-effects. How do we start communicating about the real issues which affect the majority of South Africans if we cannot support each other with specific issues which all have the same source, our history?
I am an active citizen. My daily call is to enrol people to be involved with unifying our partnerships, marriages, families, communities and, most importantly, our country. I have been labelled a social justice warrior, an idealist, elitist and misinformed by a handful of people who chose to misinterpret who I say I am. It never knocks me off my game, even if it insults my thinking and hurts my feelings. Occasionally I wonder if I should just get on with it, my life. A lot of people choose to do that and I respect that choice entirely.
My hesitation to simply get on with it in my own little corner of a leafy suburb is that I will deprive others in my position to see what it is they can do and how they can contribute to atonement, reconciliation, debates about stereotypes and influence how they think and be. All the while I am learning that there are other effective ways to make things better and different. Sometimes we meet in the middle, agree to disagree or compromise and move into uncomfortable or unknown territory. My intention is always to build through understanding and appreciation of each other, our stories, our backgrounds, our cultures, our triggers, or distinctions.
Crime, corruption, cheap life, more valued life, abuse, rape, robbery and righteousness are skittles in the bowling alley of our lives. We can sit on the sidelines, enjoying Coke and candy floss and cheering or jeering. My preference is that we put on our shoes, roll up our sleeves and create a team to think about these ills and how we recreate our predictable future. There is wisdom in crowds.
When ordinary citizens make a concerted effort to mobilise people into the streets for a march to protest each and every mockery of our people, our country and our Constitution, we should participate. If other citizens feel strongly that fees must fall, we should hear what they are saying and be prepared to look back and see how we ended up here. All this before we offer an opinion based on our personal circumstances.
When ordinary people organise to protest against gender-based violence, especially if it is not something that affects us directly, we should hear them out, show empathy and prepare ourselves for the day it does become our reality or that of someone we love. When concerned citizens call for Black Monday, where everybody is asked to wear black in opposition to the senseless brutal murders of families who own farms and the people who work the land, then we should support them. If we don’t support them, it should not be because it is not our problem. Are you personally making a difference, or are you waiting for it to be made by the people involved?
When an old South African flag shows up, once or often, I stop myself jumping on the bandwagon of, “I knew it. Racist, white supremacists organised this march!” I prefer to assume these old flags are in the hands of opportunists, fearful of the future and longing for the safety and protection which apartheid offered them. That is their prerogative. I don’t have to agree with them, I can reject their sentiments and support the overall action highlighting that farmers and food supplies are at risk and as vulnerable as the rest of us.
No, we are not free to taint the whole march and all the marchers with the same brush. There was a call for citizens to support. A request that no political paraphernalia or T-shirts or flags be used to demonstrate and represent any political party. “No boer, no pap” is a reality. If we want to debate racism, the land issue, how so many farmers are white yet the people who work the land are black, these are the places we must delve to find answers and ways to move forward. All these socio-economic stumbling blocks are worthy of our attention and understanding and they are separate and parallel discussions.
We need to acknowledge the people in the various groups of dissatisfaction who, like us, want a different, inclusive and free society. The best way to create more people like that is to show up and support. Let us stop judging each other on the actions of a few and let us look at and be willing to build a better society as people first.